How to Get Over A Friendship Breakup | Chiral Carbon

Nothing in this world lasts forever. And yeah, friendships can't be forever too. In your childhood, in your teenage, in your college life, today, tomorrow, or after the day tomorrow, all of you'd have faced friendship breakup in your life.  That can be at any stage of life. You never know, the person who is the special one for you today, may not be the same with you forever. It's hard to do, but it happens, it is possible.

The end of a friendship and those ups and downs, all that can be difficult even the worst experience ever. Our friends are supposed to be our strengths, and they are the ones who celebrate our wins the most. Facing a friendship breakup makes you feel totally lost. It is horrible. That experience of friendship breakup is just horrible.

Why It Does Friendship Breakup Happen?

The best expectation of your friendship is 'We are together, we live together, we handle things together, we fight together and we are there for one another forever". But when all the things are not going well, you feel it, you feel what is going to happen next. It can be due to disagreements or arguments. The most common one for friendship breakup is that two of them drift apart. They don't have enough energy or interest to keep their friendship alive. The communication gap can also be a reason. 

Besides all the reasons, losing your best one is painful, facing a friendship breakup is incredibly painful. It is the most painful one. The closer you used to be, the more you are going to hurt. 

How To Deal with a Friendship Breakup?

Now all is done, just be honest and honor the fact that both of you are humans, both of you have made mistakes and both of you have hurt each other. Both of you need to heal, both of you have to move on.

Accept and Own Everything

It is difficult but try to acknowledge it. Accept and own anything bad you think you've done. 

Acknowledge You Pain 

The pain you are facing is real. Everything is changed to somewhat you never expected. Both of you spent a golden period together but now everything is gone. It is heartbreaking. But acknowledge your pain. Try to be normal and act normal.

Move On

Although it hurts', it hurts more than anything else but you have to get over with it. You have to move on. You have to be yourself. 

Be Kind To Yourself

Just be kind to yourself. Give yourself some space. Allow yourself to evolve. Don't get down on yourself. It is a harsh one, but you have to forgive yourself for anything bad you think you've done.

Become A Better Person

Take it as an opportunity to learn and try to be a better person, a better human. Take a deep look at yourself and try to improve if there's something bad in you. Try to evolve into an improved person.

Make Yourself A Priority

Get enough sleep. Stick to your normal routine although it's not that much easy. It is painful to get a new start or face new things in your life. But be nice to yourself.

Practice Self Love

Pull yourself up and take care of yourself. Participate in all your daily activities although it's difficult. Keep yourself busy. Start spending time with yourself. Share all of your pain with yourself only. Take a shower, get your nails done, go for a walk, have a cup of tea with yourself, and try to be friends with you.  It'll help you to recover from the pain. It'll bring satisfaction to you. It'll help you to get over with the friendship breakup.

Be Satisfied

Try to be satisfied as satisfaction is the thing that is even more important than happiness. You are not happy? It is ok. But try to be satisfied. Self-care and self-love will automatically bring you satisfaction. Try practicing self-love. And take care of yourself. No one else'd come and do it for you. 

When you are in a best friend relationship, you might not even think that it'll not be the same forever. But friendships end too, they don't always last forever. A lot of people come and go throughout your life. Things change when you proceed ahead in your life. You can face friendship breakup too.But, Let this not discomfort you. Let this not affect your compassion for yourself. Try to readjust yourself as soon as you can. Everyone has their own perspective to see different things, you don't pressurize them to see with your perspective. Make yourself an ideal person, for you at least. Be your own best friend. It is the only thing that'll not hurt you ever. 

Let Me Know

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